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Vow Guide
Very Demure, Very Mindful, Very Legal

The elevated
marriage name change
guide for newlyweds.

The step-by-step guide to changing your last name after marriage — Social Security, passport, driver's license, and beyond. No DMV drama, no bureaucratic hangovers. Just your new legal identity, seamlessly synchronized.

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State-Specific
Paperless
Beautifully Boring

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One-time. No subscriptions.

Pick the tier that matches how much of your new life you want quietly handled. Every guide is a single payment — yours to keep.

Vow Starter

$39one-time

The essentials to move confidently through the core three.

  • Master Data Summary — secure, one-time entry
  • Submission Guide for every online form
  • Direct links to all federal & state forms
  • Your Timeline with automated waiting-period alerts
  • Covers Social Security, Passport, Driver's License
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Vow Complete

$59one-time

Everything in Starter, plus banks, utilities, professional certifications, and travel documents.

  • Everything in Vow Starter
  • Banks & credit cards
  • Utilities & recurring accounts
  • Degrees & professional certifications
  • Global Entry & Voter Registration links

Vow Premium

$79one-time

White-glove specificity for the details only your state knows.

  • Everything in Vow Complete
  • State-specific Driver's License support
  • Professional license tracking
  • Custom requests handled on your behalf
  • Priority support

A little something for our readers

The Paperless Name-Change Checklist — free download.

A quietly comprehensive PDF: the full sequence, every document to pack, and the exact online forms to file — from marriage certificate to Social Security, passport, and driver's license. Print it, save it, share it with a friend who just said yes.

  • Step-by-step timeline
  • Document packing list
  • Direct links to online forms
  • True cost breakdown

02 · Document Readiness

What's in my bag.

Tap a card to see exactly what to pack before you leave the house. Nothing more, nothing forgotten.

03 · The Order of Operations

Sequence is everything.

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  1. Certify the Marriage Certificate

    Order 2 certified copies from the county clerk.

    Every downstream office wants an original with a raised seal. A pair is plenty — and perfectly intentional.

  2. Update Social Security

    Use the SSA online form.

    This is the keystone. Nothing else can move forward until the SSA has your new name on file.

  3. Update Your Passport

    Submit your application with your married name.

    Choose the path based on how recently your passport was issued. Same photo standards apply.

  4. Refresh Your Driver's License

    Visit the DMV with your updated SSA record.

    Systems reconcile with the SSA overnight. Wait 48 hours after your SSA update before visiting.

  5. Update Global Entry & Voter Registration

    Secure your travel profile and civic identity.

    We provide the direct links to the online forms, so you can update both without hunting for the right portal.

  6. Align Taxes, Accounts, Insurance & Credentials

    Tax documents, financial accounts, insurance, utilities, degrees, and professional certifications — in that order.

    Vow Guide keeps the list tidy so nothing lingers in your maiden name for years.

04 · Common Questions

Questions, answered.

The quiet details behind how Vow Guide works, keeps your data safe, and saves you time.

We provide preparation, guidance, and sequencing. We save you hours of research by collecting all 55 necessary data points just once. We use that data to create summary sheets for online submissions. Our core value is providing the correct data, the correct sequence, and the right timing, ensuring an error-free, streamlined process you execute yourself.

Absolutely. We never store your data. Your inputs are secured using encryption for the duration of your active session only. Once you complete your intake form, the sensitive information is immediately deleted from our system. We are a secure tool for preparation, not a data storage service.

Our platform prioritizes a modern, paperless workflow. If an official online form exists, we direct you to use that for submission.

Our platform includes a robust step-by-step guide for every submission and a customer support team for additional questions. For specific issues or questions about your personalized timeline, our Premium tier provides access to dedicated email support from one of our specialists.

The name change process is highly sequential and legally mandated. For example, you must wait until 30 days after your marriage date to apply for your name change with the Social Security Administration (SSA). We build these specific waiting periods and sequencing requirements (SSA first, then U.S. Passport, then Driver's License) into your personalized timeline, so you never lose time.

05 · Gift Vow Guide

A thoughtful gift.

Vow Guide is the perfect modern solution — a secure, automated companion that handles the complex details and forms. Gift your friend or loved one Vow Guide so their first months of marriage are spent celebrating, not researching deadlines or filling out confusing paperwork. Practical, thoughtful, and hours of work saved.

  • Secure, automated name-change guide
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  • More time for celebrating

06 · From the Vow Guide Pinterest

Curated inspiration.

A quiet curation of wedding admin, name-change guides, and thoughtful newlywed gifts — saved for you on Pinterest.

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07 · From the Blog

Marriage Name Change Guides, State Shortcuts & Paperless Tips

Deeper reads on how to change your last name after marriage — Social Security sequencing, state-by-state DMV links, passport timing, and the fees no one warns you about.

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Complementary Paperless Name Change Guide

A free, paperless marriage name change guide covering the exact order, forms, and online shortcuts newlyweds actually need.

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